My wife and My Mother:

My wife and My Mother:

Today i select very important topic from society. You all know women are beauty of world with woman There is no color in this. But can you all ever take a look toward some important relation. We all read in the book, articles watches programs and debates about women important but we never give her that respect and care which she exactly demand. My todays article is very much sensitive and important two relation in my and also in your life having much values and importance Your Mother and Your Wife. 1 One your mother which is your wealth, health every thing 2 Second is your wife best care take of your children and your mentally satisfaction. We never forget the importance of these two relations from our life. These two relations found in every house but are these both relations are happy in every house. I think No because there is not mature understanding among both relation. Yes today i will tell you more about them why both have misunderstanding and why both are living very unhappy life. I have a very true story and i want t share without because i notices this story very much in my life that why i want this to share with you and write a complete article on it. In my neighbor a girl is living and spending her life very happily her name is Komal and she is very good and nice girl. Everyone is very happy from her behavior and Whole family spending very happy life she was a newly married girl in that family. But after some time her word become hard and she behaves with every one arrogantly and her style look like that she is fighting every time. After some day we notice the condition of this family is much tensed and this family is going to make a decision to end this relation. Why this Happen in this family and why all are become unaware from her first appearance and present situation. Why who is Responsible for this condition and why these types of conditions happen in our families. Some time our family conditions destroy because of our negative thought. Our family member our relative play some time play negative role to destroy some relations. When our mothers are searching girls for their sons for marriage every mother wishes that she found a best girl ever in the world. And a girl having no negative habits and she a ways remain positive even we do bad with her. When marriage done the entire life style is changed after some time. That girl will be negative she is wrong, she have this problem that problem. After marriage i think we spend one month happy but after that there is no chance to live happy my mother and my wife. Why in every 2nd house we found in this situation why we don’t compromise and run our matter happily why act last we going to break our relation permanently. Some time our mothers are right and some time our wife’s are right. Situation is always balanced. I still not understand before marriage that girl is the queen of whole family but after that she becomes a monster why. Everyone is becoming afraid from her like she will destroy us and whole family. If you want to involve in their fight both have lots of comments she doing this and she is wrong. She don’t like me that why she is behaving like this. My question from all of you why a mother when she becomes mother in law totally change. Before she was a wife and mother she was the main leader of house when we give her"mohter in Law" title her behavior and life in the house will completely changed. On other side when a girl ready for marriage she creates some dreams in her mind. She also demand from that family that all allow her to decoration this house different way Every one also gives her importance and take care of her but when she see there is no value of their in this house and no one give any interest in her decision and her life so then she will be against her Mother in Law some misunderstanding and slowly slowly grown up and after some time she hates all the family member specially her mother in law. She think that mother in law is her biggest enemy now both hate each other and slowly slowly whole environment of house became much tensed because of these two women. Bother never realize we want to understand each other problem because of us whole family is disturb but never no one ready to accept her mistake on any condition. Always thinks they are on correct way and 2nd person is doing badly with her. Mother make of mind of his son about her wife that she is not good for our family and we all are disturb only because of her. He will be much tensed to see this condition of his house and her mother behavior. And when he back to his room over there her wife is waiting with lots of complains about her mother. He is unable to understand the condition that is right and who is wrong if he go with her Mother her wife and his life with children completely destroy and if he goes with her wife other family member are not allow doing this because they call him that he is unaware from his other family members. What can he do? No Right Path he found and he silently spending his life with any happiness and joy. In this whole tensed condition her wife left the house and go to live with her mother slowly slowly tensions in the family increased and both families make a decision to divorce that girl... When she was at her mother house she told her about Mother in law and another family will also disturb from this situation. We have a Solution if all the Girls and Mother wants to be happy they never found any tension in her house and spend their time happily. Both Wife and Mother in Law make a mind of Love and forgiveness both spread love and sweetness in the family. If Mother in Law gives her care and love she always respects her and never reject her any saying. Both take care of each other and left the negative behavior in life. Appreciate each other and give each other value and help in any work it will give both very much confidence in life. By creating this type of environment in the house your house will be the best and ideal house on earth where the relations are important where love is found easily. Thanks for your time to read this article we hope its help you to change your society condition. Editor Team Speak with Wise